fix(crud): skip generated and read-only columns on insert and update

Read-merge-update wrote every model column back, so GENERATED ALWAYS
columns failed with SQLSTATE 428C9. Add a bun 'generated' tag option,
reflection.NonWritableColumns/RemoveNonWritableColumns, and apply them
in resolvespec, restheadspec, websocketspec, mqttspec, resolvemcp and
the nested CUD processor. Add ExcludeColumn to InsertQuery/UpdateQuery
for model-based writes.

pkg/common/adapters/database/bun.go

@@ -1507,6 +1507,13 @@ func (b *BunInsertQuery) OnConflict(action string) common.InsertQuery {
 	return b
 }
 
+func (b *BunInsertQuery) ExcludeColumn(columns ...string) common.InsertQuery {
+	if len(columns) > 0 {
+		b.query = b.query.ExcludeColumn(columns...)
+	}
+	return b
+}
+
 func (b *BunInsertQuery) Returning(columns ...string) common.InsertQuery {
 	if len(columns) > 0 {
 		b.query = b.query.Returning(strings.Join(columns, ", "))
@@ -1619,6 +1626,13 @@ func (b *BunUpdateQuery) SetMap(values map[string]interface{}) common.UpdateQuer
 	return b
 }
 
+func (b *BunUpdateQuery) ExcludeColumn(columns ...string) common.UpdateQuery {
+	if len(columns) > 0 {
+		b.query = b.query.ExcludeColumn(columns...)
+	}
+	return b
+}
+
 func (b *BunUpdateQuery) Where(query string, args ...interface{}) common.UpdateQuery {
 	b.query = b.query.Where(query, args...)
 	return b