fix(common): harden CORS, sort, raw-SQL WHERE and x-custom-sql-or

Add a `hardening` config section (RESOLVESPEC_HARDENING_*) so each
fix can be switched off to restore the previous behaviour:

- cors_strict_origins: only reflect origins listed in
  cors.allowed_origins / server URLs, with credentials; `*` never
  sends credentials; fix shared-slice append of expose headers.
- sort_strict: join aliases must match `alias.identifier` (empty alias
  no longer matches everything); sort expressions reject dangerous
  functions/catalogs; cql* columns must be identifier-safe.
- sql_strict: client raw-SQL fragments must have balanced parens and
  quotes, no comments/`;`/`$$`, DML keywords, dangerous functions or
  system catalogs; a rejected fragment now fails closed ("(1=0)")
  instead of dropping the filter. Subqueries stay allowed unless
  sql_block_subqueries is set.
- x-custom-sql-or is grouped together with the client's own
  conditions (new optional WhereGrouper, implemented for bun and gorm)
  so it can no longer OR past server-side filters.

pkg/common/adapters/database/bun.go

@@ -537,6 +537,19 @@ func (b *BunSelectQuery) WhereOr(query string, args ...interface{}) common.Selec
 	return b
 }
 
+// WhereGroup wraps the conditions added by fn in one parenthesised group ANDed with the rest.
+func (b *BunSelectQuery) WhereGroup(fn func(common.SelectQuery) common.SelectQuery) common.SelectQuery {
+	b.query = b.query.WhereGroup(" AND ", func(q *bun.SelectQuery) *bun.SelectQuery {
+		inner := *b
+		inner.query = q
+		if res, ok := fn(&inner).(*BunSelectQuery); ok {
+			return res.query
+		}
+		return q
+	})
+	return b
+}
+
 func (b *BunSelectQuery) Join(query string, args ...interface{}) common.SelectQuery {
 	// Extract optional prefix from args
 	// If the last arg is a string that looks like a table prefix, use it