feat(pgsql): unique constraints on apply, matching unique index names, FK deferral

- migration writer now emits unique constraints (direct apply and live diff
  previously dropped them); idempotent via the existing DO block
- unique constraint adopts a same-named model unique index with
  ADD CONSTRAINT ... UNIQUE USING INDEX instead of building a second index
- dbml reader names unnamed unique indexes ukey_<table>_<cols> to match the
  unique constraint naming
- foreign key deferral: Constraint.Deferrable/InitiallyDeferred are *bool
  (nil = unspecified, never diffed); writers emit DEFERRABLE, DEFERRABLE
  INITIALLY DEFERRED and NOT DEFERRABLE; live reader reads condeferrable and
  condeferred; dbml reader/writer support deferrable and initially deferred
- tests and README/naming docs updated

pkg/writers/pgsql/templates/create_foreign_key.tmpl

@@ -7,4 +7,4 @@ ALTER TABLE {{qual_table .SchemaName .TableName}}
   REFERENCES {{qual_table .TargetSchema .TargetTable}} ({{.TargetColumns}})
   ON DELETE {{.OnDelete}}
   ON UPDATE {{.OnUpdate}}
-  DEFERRABLE;
+  {{.Deferral}};

pkg/writers/pgsql/templates/create_foreign_key_with_check.tmpl

@@ -11,8 +11,8 @@ BEGIN
       FOREIGN KEY ({{.SourceColumns}})
       REFERENCES {{qual_table .TargetSchema .TargetTable}} ({{.TargetColumns}})
       ON DELETE {{.OnDelete}}
-      ON UPDATE {{.OnUpdate}}{{if .Deferrable}}
-      DEFERRABLE{{end}};
+      ON UPDATE {{.OnUpdate}}{{if .Deferral}}
+      {{.Deferral}}{{end}};
   END IF;
 END;
 $$;

pkg/writers/pgsql/templates/create_unique_constraint.tmpl

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ BEGIN
       AND table_name = '{{.TableName}}'
       AND constraint_name = '{{.ConstraintName}}'
   ) THEN
-    ALTER TABLE {{qual_table .SchemaName .TableName}} ADD CONSTRAINT {{quote_ident .ConstraintName}} UNIQUE ({{.Columns}});
+    ALTER TABLE {{qual_table .SchemaName .TableName}} ADD CONSTRAINT {{quote_ident .ConstraintName}} UNIQUE {{if .UsingIndex}}USING INDEX {{quote_ident .UsingIndex}}{{else}}({{.Columns}}){{end}};
   END IF;
 END;
-$$;
+$$;