feat(main): add silent mode to suppress output messages

* implement --silent flag to control output verbosity
* update error handling to restore stderr after silent mode
* enhance progress reporting in PostgreSQL reader

cmd/relspec/diff.go

@@ -229,43 +229,43 @@ func readDatabase(dbType, filePath, connString, label string) (*models.Database,
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for DBML format", label)
 		}
-		reader = dbml.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = dbml.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "dctx":
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for DCTX format", label)
 		}
-		reader = dctx.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = dctx.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "drawdb":
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for DrawDB format", label)
 		}
-		reader = drawdb.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = drawdb.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "json":
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for JSON format", label)
 		}
-		reader = json.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = json.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "yaml":
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for YAML format", label)
 		}
-		reader = yaml.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = yaml.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "sqldir", "scripts", "scriptdir":
 		if filePath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path is required for SQL directory format", label)
 		}
-		reader = sqldir.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: filePath})
+		reader = sqldir.NewReader(newReaderOptions(filePath, ""))
 
 	case "pgsql", "postgres", "postgresql":
 		if connString == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: connection string is required for PostgreSQL format", label)
 		}
-		reader = pgsql.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{ConnectionString: connString})
+		reader = pgsql.NewReader(newReaderOptions("", connString))
 
 	case "sqlite", "sqlite3":
 		// SQLite can use either file path or connection string
@@ -276,7 +276,7 @@ func readDatabase(dbType, filePath, connString, label string) (*models.Database,
 		if dbPath == "" {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: file path or connection string is required for SQLite format", label)
 		}
-		reader = sqlite.NewReader(&readers.ReaderOptions{FilePath: dbPath})
+		reader = sqlite.NewReader(newReaderOptions(dbPath, ""))
 
 	default:
 		return nil, fmt.Errorf("%s: unsupported database format: %s", label, dbType)