feat: podman-compose stack units and root/user execution scopes

- syncup: podman first, docker only as fallback (podman wins on name clash;
  existing docker units found in podman switch to podman)
- syncup: group podman-compose containers into one `kind: stack` unit per
  project (project, working_dir, compose_files, compose_bin from labels);
  disable existing member units ("part of stack <project>")
- generator: compose mode (podman-compose up/stop, WorkingDirectory) with
  pod start/stop fallback when compose binary/dir/files are missing
- reconcile: stacks disabled with "stack not found" when neither compose
  files nor pod exist
- root: scan root + rootless users listed in `users:` (podman only)
- non-root: config ~/.config/unitdore/units.yaml, own user units only
- sysuser package: runuser with XDG_RUNTIME_DIR/DBUS env, home/linger lookup
- install: warn when linger is not enabled for user units
- testdata/stack: podman-compose test stack and captured podman ps fixture
- docs: README, generated-units, man page, AGENTS, PLAN

cmd/status.go

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ func runStatus(cmd *cobra.Command, args []string) error {
 
 		rows = append(rows, statusRow{
 			Name:      u.Name,
-			Runtime:   u.Runtime,
+			Runtime:   runtimeLabel(u),
 			User:      user,
 			Enabled:   enabled,
 			Installed: installed,